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IMPERFECT STRANGERS: DON BLOCH

Don Bloch was born in New York City in 1943. Educated at Harvard and at Oxford, he has traveled widely all across the world. Don Bloch is an author non-fiction, poetry and seven novels, and he is also the author of SEDUCED BY THE BEAUTY OF THE WOELD- TRAVELS IN INDIA (Photographs by Iman Bijleveld, Abrams 2003 NYC).  He has a Phd in English Literature from Harvard, and has lived in scattered parts of the globe.. At present he lives in Amsterdam.

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In my favourite photograph of my father

and my mother- not lost, no, but temporarily misplaced-

I can remember they are looking at a photograph

of my mother’s father and my father’s mother

who are looking at each other on a swing the spring that I was born.

For years we kept it in a box along with many very similar,

but less familiar pictures taken by my father’s father. There’s one

I also like to look at from a fancy photo studio

with painted mountains in the background . It shows,

I think, my mother’s mother holding up my brother,

in a very stiff and artificial pose. For years I thought

the couple in the first picture, that is, the one

my grandparents were in, smiling very naturally,

the snap my parents, a happy pair of lovebirds, stood there holding,

were themselves a couple, married to each other,

but I learned I was mistaken when I told my mother

how in my favourite picture I found she easily could pass

for her mother’s sister and she said, laughing,

by the time that shot was taken, her mother was long dead.

Our heads are filled with smiling faces, imperfect strangers

from a past that grows more mysteriously opaque

with every photograph we take. Even when we jot down

on the back a time and place, we are liable to mix up faces.

What is intended as a help to keep the record straight

an aide memoire, serves to rub in just how fallible we are.

I’ve even begun to suspect the next thing I will discover

is that it’s me and not my brother in my unknown father’s mother’s arms.

 

 

 


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